It has been a long time since a new technique has made such impressive improvements to health and well-being, earning the praise of all who have tried its unique healing ability. A system which incorporates the ancient understanding of the eastern cultures and skilfully blends these with modern day insights to produce one of the most effective means of healing on the deepest levels within the body. Emotional detox through bodywork is just that and promises to provide a new path to insight and awareness, never before realised. The work of Mal Weeraratne has been lauded as a must for anyone looking to delve into their own personal emotional depths and discover what is lying underneath their surface.

When working on this unconscious level with the knowledge that Mal Weeraratne has of the body and the meaning behind the ailments we experience in our personal lives, one can experience the immense benefits of the skills and expertise that he brings to the practice. Developed by Mal Weeraratne and explained in more detail in his well-known book, Emotional Detox through Bodywork, the concept is simple and 100% natural. Therapy sessions can be conducted in person with Mal Weeraratne for those who would like to experience the deep levels of healing that is attainable, for themselves.

This Emotional detox system can help with the healing of ailments which are emotional or physical. It is explained that our emotions are the route of all imbalances in the body and that as a result, the body manifests pains and illness or emotional anxieties as its way of showing the conscious you, that there is something that needs to be worked on. Bringing balance to your system is the quickest way to reduce the physical symptoms of these imbalances, some of which have settled deep in the body for decades, carried with us through our lives and waiting for the moment to reveal themselves to the mind. Emotional detoxing can support the body in releasing that which has been holding us back from living the healthiest, most productive versions of our lives.

Allowing the mind and body to relax and re-tune themselves to their natural state of being can help alleviate the symptoms of depression, addictions, low self esteem and lack of self confidence resulting in a lack of libido and can have amazing effects on many issues relating to the body’s ability to regulate its reproductive system, physical, chemical and emotional. Dysfunctions that are associated with the body’s natural needs and desires are addressed head on with this easy to experience practice. Having had so much success with the techniques used, there are hundred of delighted customers who use the practice intermittently or regularly, to keep themselves in the best physical state of mind and body possible.

Clearing blockages caused by memories and beliefs that the body carries, can free the body of discomfort and bring about a feeling of content, some thing which some of us have long forgotten as is a normal state of being for the body-mind! Find your equilibrium and receive healing, bliss and inner transformation.

 

Mal Weeraratne P h i l o s o p h y

“We are all born free and pure, with positivity and love, which is the true essence of our being.”

Have you ever decided to fundamentally change your lifestyle in some way and then managed to really stick to that decision effectively and to benefit your life as a result? Sometimes it is easier said than done when it comes to making fundamental changes for the better.  Making that decision is a way of trying to improve ourselves by adapting our lives in a way which we feel will make our life, health or happiness better. It’s a way of placing goals and hopes and dreams in place and then sticking to the game plan to make that dreams come true. Every new day gives us the chance to create a new start if that is what we need or change something that we know is no longer serving us. It’s not always that easy to stick to and if they were, they wouldn’t be hopes and dreams in the first place! Something that we covet is usually worth striving for but the good things in life will never come to us without first making the decision and then chasing that goal.

Mal face to face

If you have tried many times to achieve a your life-changing decision but find yourself falling into old patterns of behavior which block you from your goals, Mal Weeraratne’s simple body emotional release technique can help you to get rid of the blocks that prevent change in your life. Emotional Detox is the method that Mal Weeraratne created using ancient energy practices of the east and combining Tantric and Taoists techniques into a modern and effective way of ridding the negative or toxic emotions and thoughts which have been stored in the body and form the base of a pattern of behaviours which no longer are relevant or serve our body, mind or spirit any longer. Emotional Detox through body release is a technique that Mal Weeraratne has been using on men and women with great success for many years. Tantric energy the main focus of the practice and the aim is to use that energy to release any blocks that we have stored up in our bodies in order to rid ourselves of the energies which cause disease, premature aging, depression and mental illnesses as well as behavioural and relationship patters which do not allow us to reach our full potential with ourselves, our loved ones and our families and friends.

Mal Weeraratne’s stages of therapy are designed to take you from a state of unknowing to one of knowing for both body and mind. It is said that your spirit holds the reigns for the well-being of the body and mind and tried to steer us into better decision-making patterns which will support our future selves in reaching the best possible state of joy that it is possible to reach.

Let your spirit guide you into directions which will challenge you to drop the old, freeing you from your past transgressions and regrets and wash them away, leaving a clean slate. If this is something that you believe your spirit is looking to steer your body and mind towards, then Mal Weeraratne is available in London, to assist you with that process. Mal Weeraratne’s emotional detox will support your spirits journey towards a better version of you!

Women have for many centuries suffered in silence with sexual dysfunction which has been embarrassing and something which is not often spoken about.  The male population are not the only sufferers of sexual dysfunction. Majority of people are aware of erectile dysfunction, impotence and issues that relate to male sexuality, however, it is estimated that four out of ten British women suffer from sexual dysfunction and despite it being common it is still largely ignored.

Some of the symptoms women suffer from can include lack of sexual desire, an inability to enjoy sex, pain during intercourse, insufficient vaginal lubrication or, even if sexually aroused, a failure to achieve an orgasm leading to feelings of inadequacy, depression and alienation.  According to The Sexual Advice Association, sexual problems affect around 50% of women, making it a common problem that remains largely unheard of.  It seems that most women think they are the only ones in the world to have these problems because all the magazine articles and media coverage are about amazing sex and fantastic orgasms, but there are thousands of women out there who are in the same situation.

Times appear to be changing and women desperate to improve their quality of life are beginning to take action and seek help.  Mal Weeraratne founder of Tantric Journey is a specialist in the field of female sexual dysfunction and works as a trained therapist, helping women overcome their difficulties through Sexual Healing & Relationship Therapy.

Through his Tantric Journey work Mal Weeraratne has helped to release many women from their negative emotional restraints and open a new gateway of self-actualization.  He has treated thousands of women from across the globe to overcome physical inhibitions such as sexual dysfunction, insomnia, inability to achieve orgasm, stresses, body aches and vagainism.  Aiding them to improve relationships or increase intimacy with their partners and even successfully find partners.  Whilst increasing self confidence in women by defeating their deteriorative subconscious ways and allowing them to enter realm of positive energy.

Deborah Sundahl, author and sex educator states, “The negative messages are stored physically, as memories, in the body. By understanding how this “body memory” operates, woman can use a valuable physical technique that can help heal and protect them from all kinds of assaults to their sexuality, from minor to serious”.

Key to the success of Tantric Journey is Mal’s respect and understanding of his client’s needs and condition. The treatments are performed in a safe and secure environment at a pace that is defined and agreed by the client.  Mal says, ‘’I can appreciate the fact, that for many people it may be scary to start this journey. Tantric Journey is similar to taking off in a space shuttle. It’s very noisy at the beginning, making the whole earth vibrate and with plenty of smoke around. But as it goes up into the blue sky through the dark and gloomy clouds, it becomes less and less noisy and uncomfortable. When it enters space it really becomes a smooth, effortless, pleasurable journey.’’

The treatment is a culmination of Tantric Bodywork, breathing techniques, body movement and sound therapy, but it starts with a long consultation where you can discuss, what you wish to achieve from the session, what your fears are and what your boundaries are.  It can be difficult to face the  Fear – Guilt – Shame – Anger – Mistrust that are at the root of sexual dysfunction, but living in a perpetual state of anxiety, feeling concern about sexual performance,  encountering  relationship problems, living with depression, feelings of guilt, or the effects of a past sexual trauma is not conducive to a happy life. All women have the right to freedom from sexual dysfunction and a fulfilling love life.

Female Orgasm

Mal Weeraratne is the Founder of Tantric Journey and has worked in the field of Human Sexuality since 1994, both in learning and treating over 3000 female clients from all walks of life in the UK, Holland, Sri Lanka and USA.

The female orgasm is a subject that does not receive much serious publicity; it is largely misunderstood and remains a mystery to majority of people including medical professionals. According to several major surveys, only 25 per cent of women always climax during sex with a partner.  For majority of women orgasm is elusive, with it occurring infrequently or in many cases never occurring at all.

For many women who cannot achieve orgasm it becomes a source of anxiety and embarrassment with many believing that there’s something wrong with them if they can’t climax to order.  This sense of abnormality only serves to heighten the problem and a sense of despair is often felt by women when they feel that there is nowhere to turn for help.

Effective treatment is available to combat anorgasmia through a revolutionary treatment called Tantric Journey. Mal treats sexual dysfunctions instigated by deeply rooted problems. These can include:  lack of sexual education, strong religious upbringing, past sexual abuse, negative relationships and high levels of anxiety associated with sex. Mal has helped to release many women from their negative emotional restraints and open a new gateway of self-actualization.

Mal Weeraratne has done abundant research on female ejaculation and its benefits. In addition to his research he has plenty of immediate experience and knowledge on positive outcomes of female ejaculation through his vast clientele.  Through his work he identifies every clients deeply seated problems to work on for elimination and release.

    

Tantric Journey is an awakening and healing process based on the ancient science of Tantra to help: enhance love, intimacy and sexuality; improve relationships; heal your body, mind and spirit. Tantric Journey begins with Four Key practices:

  • Deep breathing with attention
  • Movement with feelings
  • Chanting with expression of emotions
  • Tantric massage to remove negative imprints

The treatment is always practiced in a client approved setting. Mal says, “creating a safe platform for this uncovering, releasing and resolving of issues is central to a successful treatment.’

Why Is There A Need For An Alternative Model To A Brothel?

In 1994 Mal Weeraratne founded the first Tantra Temple model in the UK, this was a center where sexually wounded and disenfranchised could seek healing. This was a place where issues such as childhood abuse, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, sexual trauma, and intimacy issues could all be addressed and healed. This was a not-for-profit business and one that was founded to address the issue of sexual healing. However, it was branded a brothel and forced to shut down by the English Authorities.

What Mal had set up was a Tantric Temple Model that offered men the opportunity to be healed and was an alternative to visiting a prostitute.It is currently estimated that 80,000 people working on the streets that are involved in prostitution in the UK (Kinnell 1999 -many experts believe the number to be far higher now and Mal believes there are over 500,000 prostitutes working in the UK, on the street, working from home, brothels, massage parlous and in Escort agencies). Worryingly statistics tell us that up to 5,000 children may be involved in prostitution at any one time, with a female to male ratio of four to one. [Home Office (2004), Paying the price]. These figures are from official statistics and it is probable that the true figures of those involved in prostitution are far higher.

In London alone, there are 2,000 brothels, all of which employ immigrant labour – as much as 80 per cent in some cases and with much of it being illegal. There are many issues that surround prostitution including abuse, sexually transmitted disease, trafficking, drugs, underage girls and poor working conditions. Women and children abused in prostitution experience severe and long lasting physical and mental health problems. Prostitution is harmful to the prostitute as constantly submitting to unwanted sex is very damaging to women’s mental health, self-esteem and sexuality and often leads to the need to disassociate – through taking drugs and/or alcohol.  Whatever the reason for women entering prostitution, her drug and alcohol dependency is likely to increase. Prostitution also has an impact on family life, for families where women become involved, and also families of the men who buy sex including health risks and loss of income. It is fair to conclude that the model of prostitution that currently exists in the UK is far from ideal and whilst it is an industry in demand it is one that does not protect its workers or resolve the issues of the men that seek their services.

According to research nearly 1 in 10 UK men visit prostitutes (university College London and Home Office), however, due to the secretive and illegal nature of visiting prostitutes and brothels, it is difficult to gain accurate statistics and it is thought that most men visit or seek the services of a sex worker at some stage in their life. Mal explains that many men visiting prostitutes need healing and are searching for solutions to their emotional pain and sexual dysfunction, he goes on to explain that they will not find these answers at a brothel as they need deep healing work. Indeed the research from PRE concluded many men got nothing but a ‘bad feeling’ from visiting prostitutes.

Mal explains that if‘damaged’ men, i.e. men that have been abused, sexually traumatized or have been emotionally deprived are likely to experience sexual blockages. Mal explains that emotional deprivation including the absence of breast feeding or sufficient breast feeding as a baby can cause men to experience emotional difficulties in adulthood. Therapist Kimberly Moffit confirmed that breastfeeding has psychological benefits, including increased cognitive development. Studies also demonstrate that breastfed children are less likely to have behavioral problems, and more likely to have higher IQs. According to widely accepted research, the bond babies develop with their mothers due to breastfeeding leads to better emotional development and stability.(1)The act of breastfeeding and the skin-to-skin contact involved releases the hormones serotonin and Oxycontin in both the mom and baby, which encourages a strong emotional bond between them. (2) furthermore, breastfed children are protected against mental health problems (3,4) and addictions.(5) They tend to be higher in intelligence (6,7) and more emotionally secure than children who were not breastfed.(8)

It follows that boys who are rejected by their mother’s or are deprived of touch from their family go onto lack security, confidence, love and intimacy. The importance of touch and the power of touch should not be dismissed or underestimated. We begin receiving tactile signals whilst still in the womb, with the vibration of a mother’s heartbeat being amplified by amniotic fluid. Professor Peter Andersen, author of ‘Nonverbal Communication: Forms and Functions, explains that touch is important in the relationship between children and caregivers, he says, “It’s an essential channel of communication with caregivers for a child,”. The skill of non-verbal communication through touch is essential for bonding and if this is not learned at an early then it can cause problems in the forming of relationships and in expressing emotion.

Similarly, the lack of a father in the family unit or parental abandonment has serious consequences on the development of a boy. Boys that don’t have a father figure actively involved in their life are more likely to suffer from depression, withdrawal, feelings of social and physical inadequacy and to get bullied.

Boys who don’t receive enough attention, time, acceptance, encouragement, tenderness, discipline, stability, security, guidance, love or wisdom from their parents and caregivers as children are more likely to suffer from mental health issues including anxiety, aggression, withdrawal and impulse control and mood disorders. Research also shows that these boys will often encounter difficulties forming peer relationship will have a higher risk of depression and suicide risk. Furthermore they will go on to have problems establishing loving relationships with girls and are more likely to form addictions, serve prison sentences or get in trouble with the law. In short these boys can grow up to be violent with stagnant anger emotions stored. If these blockages are not treated they can go on to pose a threat to society, by becoming child abusers, committing domestic violence, raping etc., indeed the study by PRE supports this view with the study recording nearly one-half of the sex buyers stating that rape happens because men get sexually carried away (47%) or their sex drive gets “out of control” (48%). Sixteen per cent stating that they would rape a woman if they could be assured that they would not be caught. Acknowledging their sexually coercive behaviors with non-prostitute women, 37% told us that they had tricked non-prostituting women into having sex by lying to them.

It seems that the old myth that brothels stop rape is not true and that  in the wake of The Savile scandal that shocked the nation, and a rise in reports of sexual abuse that is  consistent with sharp jumps in reports of physical attacks on children and the statistics of domestic violence failing to fall coupled with the fact that statistics only tell the story of those cases reported; it seems more important than ever that we need a way of stopping men from committing these terrible crimes and creating more victims that continue the cycle of abuse. Mal strongly believes that Tantric healing is the solution to breaking this cycle of abuse. However his views and beliefs have seen him encounter a prison cell whilst serving a sentence for living off  immoral earnings, despite the fact he never took a penny profit.

Have you ever had a sexual dysfunction problem that is your secret? That you feel you can’t share with anyone and yet you desperately would like to get some help, well help in a phone call away with Mal Weeraratne . Take control of your life again and begin this journey with the man who is a British Pioneer in the Area of Emotional Release through bodywork, Mal Weeraratne has studied in various accredited institutes under pioneers & experts earning him the accolade of being the first Certified Tantra Educator in the UK. Read what to expect from your Tantric journey:

Tantric Journey

The deep bodywork that l carry out in a Tantric Journey healing session will help to dissolve negative thoughts, feelings, issues and blocks and will create sufficient positive energies that will spread throughout your body to heal every cell.

This treatment gives the client ultimate control of the pace and focus of the healing. Tantric Journey teaches the body and mind to self-heal, self-develop and to master the skills of achieving a full body, extended Multi Orgasmic Response (MORE), instead of a localised genital release, putting the woman in charge of her own sexuality, instead of depending on a man, woman or even a vibrator
What to Expect if You Come for a Treatment with Mal Weeraratne

After removing your shoes you will be brought into my Tantric Journey Temple, filled with statues of Buddha, Gods and Goddesses such as Shiva, Shakti, Ganesh and Tara, dim tranquil lighting with candles and incense surrounded with a touch of ethnic ancient music. This is a place of calm and relaxation where there is no agenda or expectations. A sacred space to be in, to be fully present and who will be able to live in your own truth, with no judgement.  You may have lived a lie all your life to satisfy your environment, culture, religion, friends, relationships, relatives, work colleagues and neighbours making you totally disconnected to be someone else. It’s a place to find yourself, to be connected and It is a time to chat about your massage experiences, expectations, medical history, lifestyle and personal boundaries, likes and dislikes.

I will give you a brief history of myself and I am happy to answer any questions you may have. It is paramount for me that you are comfortable and feel at ease with me and the therapy you are about to experience.

Tantric Journey begins with four key practices:

•          Deep breathing with attention
•          Movement with feelings
•          Chanting with expression of emotions
•          Tantric massage to remove negative imprints

A detailed list of the treatment procedure Treatment Card will be given and a consent form will need to be signed prior to the treatment. Sessions take between 3 hours up to half a day depending on the needs of the individual client.